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Traumatic Stress and Divorce in Arizona

Posted on : July 18, 2017, By:  Christopher Hildebrand
Traumatic Stress and Divorce in Arizona

Traumatic Stress and Divorce in Arizona

Traumatic Stress and Divorce in Arizona | The Symptoms

Going through a divorce when you are already suffering from traumatic stress or experiencing traumatic stress because of the divorce can feel debilitating. Thankfully, there are things within your control that you can do to combat traumatic stress and divorce in Arizona.

Counselors and psychologists rely upon the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Health Disorders (“DSM”) to diagnose traumatic stress. The disorder requires that the person experienced a traumatic or stressful event(s). The emotional and psychological distress experienced by someone with traumatic stress disorder can vary significantly.

Specifically, the emotional distress is experienced as feelings of anxiety and fear. Others may respond by not finding enjoyment in people, things, or activities when someone else would experience pleasure (“Anhedonic”). Others may simply have a feeling of unease and a loss of personal satisfaction (“Dysphoria). This can lead to outbursts of anger or a general lack of self-identity.

Jennifer, thank you for being my attorney. I could not have been more pleased with the outcome of my family court hearing. Everything you have done for me throughout this case reflects in the final ruling of the judge. You helped me keep my head together and taught me a lot about myself as a person. I learned so much about my life from observing and listening to you. I will take all the advice you gave me to continue taking responsibility for my choices, continue to put the kids' needs first, and always stay truthful. Your diligence, dedication, and persistence in my case made what seemed impossible, possible. You are a wonderful person and an amazing attorney and I am stronger and more confident because of you.
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20:31 20 Sep 17
I just want to again thank the Firm for working with me all that it has. I could not have done anything without everyone's assistance. You, Chris and Stacey have been and continue to provide me with compassion and hard work towards my case. Also a very special thanks to Kip for taking my case in the beginning. Also continued support from him and his dedication to providing me with his expertise in this matter.
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A Google User
21:41 07 Nov 17
After interviewing several law firms, I came across Jennifer Shick, and her firm, who I hired to represent me for my Family Court case. Jennifer has extensive knowledge of the law and is determined to bring the truth to every issue involved within the case. Throughout my case, Jennifer was prepared meticulously as well as went above and beyond all of my expectations. Even when the other party tried to differ from the truth, lie to the Judge, and turn situations around, Jennifer remained attentive and provided substantial evidence to show the judge the facts as well as the proof to support what was the best interests of my children. Additionally, Jennifer helped me endure many difficult experiences, situations and inspired me to remain positive throughout the entirety of my case. Her kindness, compassion, and professionalism helped me through very difficult times and made the process feel a thousand times lighter on my shoulders. She truly has my children and my best interest at heart and I trust her perspective as well as her honesty on each and every aspect of my case. She lessened the burden on my shoulders and even when I felt like the case was not going to go in my favor, Jennifer was open-minded and reassured me that the Judge would, in fact, see the truth, which he did and the case went in my favor. After nine months of court, everything finally came together. I cannot declare how much Jennifer has been an outstanding attorney. She addressed each and every issue with diligence, she cares about her clients and their families. Jennifer genuinely cares about her clients and her dedication to the details of the case was remarkable. Overall, I am extremely pleased with Jennifer’s services and I am truly thankful that I was so blessed to have her represent my children and me. I highly recommend Jennifer as one of the best attorneys in Arizona and if the situation ever arises, I will definitely have her represent my children and me again.
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14:58 04 Oct 17
Dear Stacey and Kip, How can I ever thank you enough for helping me through the most difficult time in my life? I couldn't put into words my heartfelt gratefulness. You both were so compassionate and professional at every given moment throughout this process with me. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You helped me to regain my freedom.
A Google User
A Google User
16:03 22 Nov 17
I was a client of Attorney Kevin Park for the dissolution of a divorce in 2016. And since I had never had the need to hire an attorney before for any purpose, I was somewhat apprehensive of the process. But the very calm and professional demeanor of Mr. Park eased my fears. He adeptly answered all my questions and I clearly knew the process and what to expect. And the skilled manner he communicated with opposing counsel was perfect. When it came down to negotiating with my spouse’s counsel, I knew I had selected the best attorney for my situation. What I noticed and appreciated was that he was using just the right amount of pressure with opposing counsel as was necessary. If you find yourself in this situation, you will want a seasoned professional like Mr. Park on your side. I'm very grateful that he was my attorney and not the opposition!
A Google User
A Google User
22:14 28 Jun 17
Chris is a smart and aggressive attorney for his clients. Chris always tries to reach a fair settlement of his cases. I’ve represented clients when Chris was the opposing counsel and while he is professional and amicable to work with, he does not back off on what he needs to do for his client
A Google User
A Google User
18:16 18 Sep 17
Kevin Park of Hildebrand Law was just what I needed for my divorce. He was very approachable and personable. He was quick to recognize what I needed and provided it quickly and efficiently. I hope to never need a divorce lawyer again, but if I know anyone else who does, I will definitely recommend Kevin.
A Google User
A Google User
19:22 23 Aug 17
I feel that Tracey Van Wickler is certainly one of the best family lawyers around. She is logical, intelligent, and truly cares. Tracey always does what is in the clients best interest, does it well, timely and with integrity. She is good at keeping her clients informed as to what is going on and clear in her communication both written and verbally. I have recommended Tracey to other people and will continue to recommend her. I recommended Tracey to someone who was having issues with their ex-wife and his response was, “I know how good she is because I went up against her and she ate me for lunch”. This same person was so impressed with her, he even recommended her to someone else, WOW, that is impressive! I am exceptionally happy with her attention to detail, her ability to explain things in ways that are easy to understand, as well as her ability to keep everyone focused on the most important things. I would recommend Tracey to anyone who may be in need of her services.
A Google User
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17:44 23 Jun 16

Traumatic Stress and Divorce in Arizona | The Solution

Divorce has been described by many as being similar to experiencing a death in the family. The way the divorce is handled, however, can either mitigate the stress of the divorce or make it worse. Stress combined with depression and a long and expensive divorce process can significantly exacerbate the emotional and psychological effect of a divorce.

Traumatic Stress and Divorce in Arizona

Traumatic Stress and Divorce in Arizona

Four people can have either a positive or negative effect on your emotional well being during a divorce in Arizona. Specifically, you and your spouse and how reasonable each of you is in the divorce. The other two being the lawyers each of you hire to represent you in the divorce. It takes only one of these people to turn an amicable divorce into a nightmare of a divorce in Arizona.

If your spouse or his or her attorney is exacerbating the divorce by being aggressive, abusive, or unreasonable, there are things you and your attorney can do to protect you. A protective order may be issued preventing your spouse from communicating with you. Your attorney can keep everything in writing to try to settle the case. If the case must proceed to trial, make sure you attorney is equipped to prepare quickly to get your trial to court as soon as possible to put an end to the stressful Arizona divorce.

If you are experiencing symptoms of anxiety, depression, or significant stress, you should seek the assistance of a mental health professional. You should also consider your mental health provider’s opinion on medication. Judges in Arizona do not care if you are taking medication to deal with anxiety or other issues. They understand a divorce is stressful and will not look negatively on your ability to provide proper care for your children because you are taking medication.

If you are facing a divorce and looking for an attorney, who can decrease the anxiety of a divorce, schedule a time to speak to one of our caring and experienced Arizona divorce attorneys today at Hildebrand Law, PC. If you have a question about divorce in Arizona, please call to speak to one of our experienced Scottsdale and Phoenix Arizona divorce attorneys at (480)947-4339.



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