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Posted on : May 22, 2017, By: Christopher Hildebrand

Divorce Mediation: Situations Best for Divorce Mediation in Arizona

Here at Hildebrand Law, PC, we understand that divorce is a large part of what makes up family law. Irreconcilable differences, issues with how to raise children, and countless other things can factor into the decision to split from your significant other. When it comes to handling the aftermath of a divorce, the decisions made during court proceedings, as well as the cost of lawyers, can make the process a stressful and infuriating occurrence.

However, we also understand that divorce can be the last option and seen as the way out that makes the most sense. If a divorce is the only answer, mediation can make the entire proceeding run a bit more smoothly and lessen the mental and emotional fatigue.

Today, we want to highlight some situations where mediation is the best course of action for divorcing couples and how it can help set them up for long-term success. When you are in need of lawyers with dispute resolution and mediation experience, trust the team at Hildebrand Law, PC to assist you with your case.

Divorce Mediation: Situations Best for Divorce Mediation.

When You Have Kids

Whether you like it or not, the other parent of your child will be involved in your life forever, albeit in a much more limited capacity. As such, it is important that you can have a semblance of a relationship with the mother or father of your child. Divorce court proceedings can get messy and ugly very quickly.

False accusations can fly, and animosity can fester, which means your soon-to-be former spouse can lose all humanity in your eyes. Rather than dealing with the continual trials and tribulations that come from dealing with these issues in court, opting for mediation can save everyone from many headaches. Not only can

Divorce court proceedings can get messy and ugly very quickly. False accusations can fly, and animosity can fester, which means your soon-to-be former spouse can lose all humanity in your eyes. Rather than dealing with the continual trials and tribulations that come from dealing with these issues in court, opting for mediation can save everyone from many headaches. Not only can

Not only can mediation bring calm to the situation, but it also allows parents to regain level-headedness before telling their children what is going on. It also sets up future interactions with former partners with the ability to be civil and coordinate parenting in the best ways possible.

Confidentiality Purposes

Divorce is never an easy time for any party involved. Sure, in the long run, it might be the most beneficial thing, but the process itself is strenuous. When it comes to problems between parties, such as the circumstances surrounding the divorce or the underlying cause, everything comes out in front of a judge. It can not only be embarrassing or humiliating but can foster animosity towards the other party for exposing things that could damage a reputation.

Times that are Best for Divorce Mediation.

When the divorce mediation route is explored, this can be avoided easily. Not only is there only one person in the room, but the mediator is almost always sworn to confidentiality, except in cases where life may be in danger or other significant exceptions.

This is part of the mediator’s job; ensuring comfort and communication is critical to a successful resolution. If you are hoping to keep your divorce as painless and quiet as possible by eliminating the spotlight brought on by other legal proceedings, mediation is the ideal situation.

Sometimes, mediation will come about as a result of litigation. Here in the state of Arizona, Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) is a broad range of settlement methods for disputes and divorce proceedings.

These can include Family Court Settlement Conferences, led by a court-ordered third-party facility. While this service is free, you do not get to choose who handles your case.

That can be a problem when you are looking for a mediator with experience in wills and probates, or if you’d prefer someone with a background in finance to help make allocating funds easier when the divorce or separation agreement is finalized. Choosing your mediator allows you to vet who deals with the intimate details involved in a divorce, giving couples the chance to set themselves up for success.

While this service is free, you do not get to choose who handles your case. That can be a problem when you are looking for a mediator with experience in wills and probates, or if you’d prefer someone with a background in finance to help make allocating funds easier when the divorce or separation agreement is finalized. Choosing your mediator allows you to vet who deals with the intimate details involved in a divorce, giving couples the chance to set themselves up for success.

While divorce and legal separation are often not a happy or uplifting time in a person’s life, they are more and more common. If you find yourself facing this situation, mediation can be a much easier way to reach a peaceful and agreeable resolution. If you are facing a divorce and are looking for a family law team with years of experience in divorce mediation and dispute resolution, get in touch with the legal experts at Hildebrand Law, PC. Don’t navigate your divorce alone, call us today and see how we can help.

Scottsdale Arizona Divorce Attorney.

Chris Hildebrand wrote this article to ensure everyone has access to information about family law in Arizona. Chris is a divorce and family law attorney at Hildebrand Law, PC. He has over 24 years of Arizona family law experience and has received multiple awards, including US News and World Report “Top Arizona Divorce Attorneys”, Phoenix Magazine “Top Divorce Law Firms”, and Arizona Foothills Magazine “Best of the Valley” award. He believes the policies and procedures he uses to get his clients through a divorce should all be guided by the principles of honesty, integrity, and, quite frankly, actually caring about what his clients are going through in a divorce or family law case. In short, his practice is defined by the success of his clients. He also manages all of the other attorneys at his firm to make sure the outcomes in their clients’ cases are successful as well.

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Despite the unfortunate situation I found myself in, Chris Hildebrand @ Hildebrand Law helped me maneuver every step with professionalism, expertise, and even a sensitivity that was an added bonus. Chris and his staff helped me even when I didn't know I needed the help. In other words. . . they made sure we did not leave anything undone. And in the rare instance we needed the expertise of another professional, Chris knew exactly who to recommend. Chris also knew, because of his experience, what to anticipate down the road of litigation. That meant we were better prepared to meet the challenges head on, which lead to a more equitable and fair outcome. I appreciated that Chris did his best to meet my every need in a timely fashion, even if I had a simple question that required only a phone call or e-mail or if we needed to talk face-to-face. I highly recommend Chris Hildebrand @ Hildebrand Law, PC.

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06:53 27 Sep 14

I cannot express enough how thankful I am that I found Hildrebrand Law. Chris Hildebrand is an excellent attorney who has my best interests in mind and always encourages me to do the right thing regardless of what the opposing party is doing. Chris knows family law very well and relies on that knowledge to format options and solutions for each situation that may arise. He knows what the Court expects and what will and will not be tolerated. He has attempted to settle this case quickly and as inexpensively as possible from the start. His paralegal, Laura, is remarkable. She is organized, quick to respond, and compassionate. Chris is well prepared with a binder full of detailed and organized information and that is likely due to her thorough skills and expertise. While getting a divorce that was unexpected is a painful and difficult process, Chris and Laura treat my family and I like friends rather than another just "client." I am hopeful that I do not need to recommend divorce lawyers to anyone in the future but if I do, Hildebrand Law will be a recommendation I would give hands down.

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I interviewed several firms and selected Hildebrand Law for my difficult military divorce as a direct result of their whole family concern and integrity. During the interview process the professionals at Hildebrand Law were as concerned for the well being of my children as I was and ensured that they presented several options along the way to ensure that we protected my children's needs as well as my financial situation. At each decision point they laid out a clear path, how it impacted the children, the financial situation. They even reminded me that my ultimate stated goal was the best interest of my children each time the other party got particularly challenging and my frustration was getting the better of me. The owner handled my case personally and was exceptionally well versed in the unique aspects of a divorce involving the military and associated benefits. Won't need them again (fingers crossed!!! :) ) but would totally recommend them to anyone!

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Divorce Mediation: Situations Best for Divorce Mediation in Arizona

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