Children Witnessing Domestic Violence in Arizona
Domestic violence is an unfortunate aspect of what our law firm deals with on an all too frequent basis. The problems dealing with a case involving domestic violence occurs when children are witnessing domestic violence in an Arizona family law case. Judges in Arizona do not tolerate a spouse or parent who abuses the other parent in front of the parties’ children. We want you to know what your rights are when you the victim of domestic violence or your children have witnessed domestic violence against you.
Effect on Children of Witnessing Domestic Violence
Witnessing domestic violence has a negative impact on your child’s emotional and psychological well being. We have successfully argued that a parent who abuses a child’s parent while the children are present actually constitutes an act of domestic violence to the children as well. The child doesn’t even have to be in the same room where the abuse is occurring if he or she can hear the incident.
Children need safety and security to develop into healthy adults. The destruction of peace and serenity a child needs by witnessing violence negatively impacts the child. The child could show signs of withdrawing from friends and family or doing poorly at school could be signs your child is being negatively impacted by seeing abuse in his or her home.
Children as Witnesses to Domestic Violence
The law in Arizona provides that any child who is capable of demonstrating the ability to understand the truth from a lie and is able to show he or she is capable of understanding questions and relaying information in response to questions is qualified to testify in court.
In criminal cases, children will be called to testify at a trial. However, the family court in Arizona does not like parents calling their children as witnesses in an Arizona divorce or child custody case. Although the court cannot stop you from calling your child as a witness in a family law case, a judge will very likely be unhappy you didn’t choose another, less direct, way of getting information from your child before the court.
This is why most family law attorneys choose to file a motion with the court requesting an interview of the child by a court-appointed mental health professional. These mental health professionals will conduct a private interview with your child to determine what he or she knows about the domestic violence that occurred. They will then send a written report to the judge and to both parents, which can be used as evidence at a future child custody trial.
What You Should Do If Your Children Witness Abuse
Nobody should accept being abused and should not allow children to witness abuse. You should reach out to friends and family to make an escape plan for you and your children. You can also reach out to domestic violence shelters and organizations to help you leave your abuser.
Lastly, you should contact a family law attorney who is well-versed in dealing with people who commit acts of domestic violence and who are not afraid to protect victims of their anger problems. We will help you get an Order of Protection to keep your abuser away from you and your children. We will also help you obtain emergency child custody orders if your situation warrants asking a judge for emergency child custody orders.
Call the experienced Scottsdale and Phoenix Arizona adoption attorneys at (480)305-8300 at Hildebrand Law, PC to learn more about children who witness domestic violence in Arizona.
Chris Hildebrand wrote this article about domestic violence in Arizona to ensure everyone has access to information about child custody laws in Arizona. Chris is a family law attorney at Hildebrand Law, PC. He has over 24 years of Arizona family law experience and has received multiple awards, including US News and World Report “Top Arizona Divorce Attorneys”, Phoenix Magazine “Top Divorce Law Firms”, and Arizona Foothills Magazine “Best of the Valley” award. He believes the policies and procedures he uses to get his clients through a child custody case should all be guided by the principles of honesty, integrity, and actually caring about what his clients are going through.